When it comes to being a single guy in a world filled with people, you may be looking around as you go about your daily business and all you might see are people in relationships. You may start feeling jealous about what they have. Maybe you even compare yourself to them. You might even start feeling depressed as you go home and sleep next to the same person again, night after night…yourself.
If you want to change this situation of yours and get a girlfriend, then you are going to need to start making some serious changes to your life. If you are happy being single, then this article will not apply to you. But if you are indeed single, then please pay attention.
The most important thing to help increase your chances of getting a girlfriend is to start doing more things around girls. This may seem obvious but there are many men who work every day and then go home after work and on weekends they don’t do anything social. You need to be social if you want to get a girlfriend. They will not just simply rock up to your door demanding a date. No! You need to go to places where women are and even better, go to places where there are many single women.
I learned in the program the Girlfriend Activation System that the best places to hang out and participate are the gym, yoga classes, painting and dancing classes. And language classes are also great. If you are between 18 – 35, then clubs and bars are also a great place to meet women.
Then you need to develop the confidence so that when you meet a women in one of these locations, you actually go and talk to them and not only that, you talk to them in a way that is attractive. Listening is overrated too. Listening is a powerful skill. Don’t just talk about yourself. And be interesting. If you don’t know how to, there are plenty of books that will teach you how to be interesting.
Another thing that will help you get a girlfriend is to go to the gym and workout. If you have a better body, you will be more attractive. This is the honest truth. So start hitting the gym.
Now you have learned a few strategies to help you increase your chances of getting a girlfriend.